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 Do you love the ‘idea’ of shopping your closet more but every morning you open up your closet it’s ‘meh’?
Even though you just bought that CUTE shirt that looked amazing online 🤩 but hanging in your closet…not as cute anymore. 😒 The worst part is this happens with most things you buy even though it’s embarrassing to admit. 😅 I feel you and I’ve been there. Now as a business owner who understands marketing, I see even more why this feeling persists.We’re sold fully styled outfits but when you buy an individual product, that’s all you get - the jacket. OR even if you buy the entire LTK linked look…it’s not fun to only wear that look.Items we buy don’t magically ‘sync’ with the rest of our clothes, precisely because they’re new. I’ve spent years finding a way to recreate an experience similar to an ‘aha’ moment that transformed my relationship with shopping in 2019. And I finally cracked the code with my VIBE class! You and me side by side in our closets turning our shopping lists into outfits. I’m not talking about a practical shopping list like I need a cardigan lol - I’m talking DREAM wishlist items 😍 you’ve been eyeing but are wayy out of budget or not sure you could ‘pull it off’. THOSE are what we use as outfit inspiration 💃🏾 because you can get that look you love now. Not after you’ve bought _______ or after you’ve lost ____ lbs Right now 💗 You don’t even have to believe it’s possible, you just have to want it. Want it enough to take the first step.What I want for you more than anything else is to feel JOY from the clothes & home you already have.I’ve made that first step simple & FUN 😉 with the VIBE class. There’s nothing else out there like it - to shift the way you see your clothes right now 🤯In creating this class I’ve gone through it multiple times and the last time I was sooo skeptical that I’d come up with another new outfit idea that I couldn’t wait to wear…but guess what? I did 😆 It works every.single.time - it’s not magic, it’s brilliant design. Click here to sign up & get your vibe on 😍
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 When you mix a variety of colors together, the result is often brown—a classic neutral. Neutrals are those in-between tones that don’t stand out too boldly but can help balance and ground an overall look. One often-overlooked neutral is olive green. It’s a muted color created by mixing green with a bit of red—its opposite on the color wheel. That slight addition of red softens the green and turns it into a more neutral tone. On the flip side, a soft pink can also become a neutral when it has a little green added to it. That mix dulls the brightness and creates a more versatile, toned-down version of pink. What’s interesting is that these two colors—olive green and soft pink—are opposites, that work beautifully together. That’s one of the most fun things about neutrals: opposite neutrals often pair effortlessly because their muted nature helps them balance one another without clashing. This is a great starting point if you’re looking to explore more color in your wardrobe or home. People often avoid bright colors because they already have so much grayscale (black, white, and gray) in their closet. Black, white, and gray get mistakenly called neutrals but they're not. They're not colors because they aren't on the color wheel. Black, white, gray are added to colors to give them a brighter tint or darker shade. For example, combining something crisp white with a bright pink can feel very vibrant and energetic. But when you use a neutral version of that pink—one that’s been slightly toned down—it brings softness and calm. True neutrals help to quiet an outfit, while black, white, or gray often amplify a color's intensity. See the video for visual examples. So when you're styling a look—or even styling a room—think of neutrals as tools for harmony. They're what allow you to play with color without being overwhelmed.  Don't wait to create a space that reflects you. Don't wait. You can do it right now.
It's not later, if and then when that happens and that's exactly what we do the Vibe Class, it's all about "Look at that image. Let's make that now." That vibe with what you have. You can absolutely do that now. The same thing applies in your home. So I wanted to give an exercise just to help give that. Oh my gosh, this is gold. I don't often talk about this enough. Ask yourself this, "In my home right now, in the space that I've created, does the decor, the look of it, aesthetic, reflect my emotions? The emotions I want to be feeling most dominantly." And if it doesn't, what can you do to change that? Does the setup, the order, where things are placed, reflect the way that you really think and organize? My desk is a very messy space because I think very messy. I've let go of trying to Pinterest, beautify it. And I really just let it be piles and drawers that I can take out and spread on floors and put back quickly. Since I think very messy and like to have multiple things out at a time, I've let my desk reflect that. And lastly there's...Function. What are the things you want to be doing more? If it's playing guitar, if it's playing a certain sport, are those items visible? Are they easy to get to? If you want to just collapse on the comfy couch, right? Is it easy to walk to your couch? Do you have to like maneuver over all these things before you can relax? What are the things you see when you come in the front door? Do they make you happy?... These are all really important questions to ask. This is an exercise you can do now. Do it now. Don't wait. Create a space you love. It's so, so important. And if you need help with this, if you need a coach and teacher, that's what I'm here for. Everything I teach, everything with redesign aesthetic style, it's so fast because it's already in you. Your style is in you. We're just unleashing it! No more "ifs," "shoulds," "what's," "have," "buts" that we've inherited from all these other places! You know what you love. Let that be expressed in your surroundings, in what you wear, and in so many other creative ways.
Now, where it gets really fun is when you know your aesthetic style, because you bring in those little details that make your eyes extra happy.
Like, "Oh my gosh, I LOVE that!!" I love to help you with this because it's taking style to a personal level. Do that requires getting out of our heads and focusing, observing with our eyes more. That is the secret. It's not your clothes or your body that dictates how you dress. You are the director here, you get to decide what your eyes focus on based on how you style it. If you'd like a step by step walk through on how to do this, learn how inside The VIBE Class.  Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to certain styles, colors, or textures? Understanding what you love—and more importantly, why you love it—is the foundation for creating a home or wardrobe that truly reflects you. Instead of constantly seeking something new, what if you could transform what you already own? That’s the core of my Your Aesthetic Style (YAS) Method, a process that helps you rediscover and repurpose your existing belongings in a fresh way. Here’s how it works: Step 1: Define The first step is all about exploration. Just like an interior redesign consultation, this phase involves asking key questions:
Step 2: Create Discovery is important, but real transformation happens when you put these insights into practice. Whether it’s restyling a room or putting together new outfit combinations, applying what you’ve learned helps you see the true potential of what you already own. Instead of buying something new, try creating the look you want first. This approach fosters creativity and encourages more intentional shopping in the future. Step 3: Share Sharing your newly styled space or outfit does two things:
Whether you post on social media, invite friends over, or simply share your experience in a conversation, putting your creativity out into the world is an essential part of the process.  Breaking Free from the Cycle of Comparison, Consumption, and Criticism
The YAS Method isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about shifting your mindset. Here’s how:
While restyling an entire home requires effort, you can start small by experimenting with your wardrobe today! The VIBE Class walks you through simple steps to create brand-new outfit combinations using what you already own. So before you shop, take a moment to discover, act, and share—you might be surprised at what you can create! |
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Yun-A (rhymes with 'fun' 'Ah') CEO of Your Aesthetic Style. 
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