Your Aesthetic Style BLOG
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Insights on how to refresh your outfits and interiors without buying more
Your Aesthetic Style BLOG
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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by all the beautiful images on Pinterest or social media—so much so that you think, I could never pull that off? Or maybe you’ve been told that what you love “doesn’t match” or “isn’t the right fit” for you?
These mental blocks don’t just affect how we express our personal style—they also impact our approach to consumption and sustainability. Through my work in interior redesign and aesthetic styling, I’ve identified three key challenges that hold us back from fully embracing our creativity and making more mindful choices. I call them The Three C’s: Comparison, Consumption, and Criticism. 1. Comparison: Overcoming the "I Can’t Do That" Mentality Social media is filled with stunning interiors, outfits, and creative ideas—but instead of feeling inspired, we often feel discouraged. We assume that only people with a “good eye” can create beautiful spaces or styles, and we hesitate to trust our own instincts. How to Break Free from Comparison:
When we want a fresh look—whether in our wardrobe or our home—our first instinct is often to shop. We think that a new purchase will bring inspiration or change, instead of first looking at what we already have. One of the biggest shifts I made during my time as an interior redesigner was realizing that people often wanted to buy new furniture simply because they felt uninspired by their current space. But when we rearranged and restyled what they already owned, they were amazed at how fresh and beautiful their space felt—without spending a dime. How to Shift from Consumption to Creativity:
This is perhaps the biggest barrier of all. Many of us have had experiences where someone—whether a stylist, a designer, or even a friend—told us that something we loved wasn’t right for us. Maybe they said a color didn’t match our skin tone, or that our home decor wasn’t “on trend.” These comments can make us doubt our own sense of style and creativity. I’ve worked with people who stopped wearing certain outfits or abandoned their favorite decor choices simply because someone else criticized them. This is a huge loss—not just for personal expression but for sustainable living. When we don’t trust our own style, we’re more likely to keep buying, hoping to “get it right.” How to Overcome Criticism and Trust Your Own Style:
These three challenges—comparison, consumption, and criticism—don’t just affect our confidence. They have real consequences:
Through workshops like the VIBE Class, I help people rediscover their creativity, repurpose what they own, and build a more intentional, stylish, and sustainable lifestyle.
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Yun-A (rhymes with 'fun' 'Ah') CEO of Your Aesthetic Style. Join me in a fun & free class turning shopping inspo into outfits from your closet! YAS!
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